Maybe you should dump her? No joke. The author suggests that you essentially bend over backwards and twist yourself into a pretzel to accommodate her changes. Not sure if her prefrontal cortex has also changed, but anyone with half a brain should try understand how their actions are impacting their spouse regardless if hormonal changes are at play.

I’m so sick and tired of the double standard. If she’s treating you like shit and you’ve attempted to share your feelings then dump her ass.